First of, for those who still read this blog in class, you are most likely under the age of 20 and still young, naive, and full of hopes and dreams. Never let that feeling die.
I am not much older, at 24, and have already seen so much pass me by. I graduated high school, went to Western Carolina, which was picked out on my own as a bit of a last minute resort, mostly because everyone kept saying that I needed to go to college. I went, did poorly, and decided that school wasn't right for me. Turns out that waiting tables is much worse than reading some books and taking tests. I moved to Florida with some friends for a year and promptly moved back to go to school. Florida was my time to myself to reflect on what I wanted, cut ties, be fully independent, and get a taste of the real world. I came back and got a job at the Grove Park Inn thinking I was hot shit and school would eventually come if needed.
I dabbled in and out of school to see what I would like and found out that graphic design was pretty cool, I had always drawn things since I was small, but this puts a new tool in my hand to make beautiful art.
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Plus it makes other things, such as sharpies and highlighters look like child's play |
There was one night in particular that I remember more than any at work. A table of 4 came in, 2 older couples, and had ordered food. Our kitchen was not the most prompt, or efficient (yes, one of the restaurants at the great gpi, one would be surprised if they knew more). I had placed the order, as I have many many times before, and one of the gentlemen's plates came out wrong, I do not recall if it was a steak prepared wrong, or wrong sides, but that is besides the point. The gentlemen was livid. He told me later, as he was paying his bill, that he did not want to, but is still going to leave a tip and that "you can do better."
I knew that it was not directed at me, and nothing that guests say ever offend me, its something about the clientele of grove park that gives people a sense of entitlement and can talk down to people. You can typically spot these people out rather quickly. I am the calm cool center of the universe whenever someone yells/talks down/ridicules me. It doesn't happen often, but when it does, I never crack. But for some reason this comment stuck with me.
I digested it, let it settle, and still could not get it out of my mind.
"You can do better."
This random stranger, who I could not point out to you today if I had to, had more effect on me with four words than most people do after whole conversations.
A week or so passed with these five syllables playing over and over in my head.
I took it as, "I can do better at life." at that point I decided to pull myself together, do everything better. After work one night I went home and spent hours online looking at classes and researching what I would be getting myself into. And even today, in all aspects of life, I tell myself the same words that this random had told me.
Something inside of me changed and always pushed for more, better, never accepting anything as the best, because even if I were the best at something, I can do better.
So I will say that life is an adventure. Do better than you did yesterday until you are the one that is the best and continue to raise the bar. Settling is for the weak and mentally poor. If you are not on an adventure, then destroy anything that is in your way and live your adventure.
I will end this with a few tips to hopefully help you in the long run.
You do not want to end up paying $600+ in rent money that you will never get back. It is wasted money. Buy a house, but in order to do so, get a high paying job. Get a high paying job, but in order to do so, graduate from college. Graduate from college, but in order to do that, you must do your homework and dedicate yourself to what you want, and what makes you happy.
If there is no happiness that comes from what you are doing, either directly, or indirectly, then stop doing it.
Do not buy materialistic things, invest in memories.
This random stranger, who I could not point out to you today if I had to, had more effect on me with four words than most people do after whole conversations.
A week or so passed with these five syllables playing over and over in my head.
I took it as, "I can do better at life." at that point I decided to pull myself together, do everything better. After work one night I went home and spent hours online looking at classes and researching what I would be getting myself into. And even today, in all aspects of life, I tell myself the same words that this random had told me.
Something inside of me changed and always pushed for more, better, never accepting anything as the best, because even if I were the best at something, I can do better.
So I will say that life is an adventure. Do better than you did yesterday until you are the one that is the best and continue to raise the bar. Settling is for the weak and mentally poor. If you are not on an adventure, then destroy anything that is in your way and live your adventure.
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Do right to those who help you, and do right to those who dont, eventually they will understand and envy you. |
I will end this with a few tips to hopefully help you in the long run.
You do not want to end up paying $600+ in rent money that you will never get back. It is wasted money. Buy a house, but in order to do so, get a high paying job. Get a high paying job, but in order to do so, graduate from college. Graduate from college, but in order to do that, you must do your homework and dedicate yourself to what you want, and what makes you happy.
If there is no happiness that comes from what you are doing, either directly, or indirectly, then stop doing it.
Do not buy materialistic things, invest in memories.
Find your happiness, find your bubble, your happy place, use this as your resting time, then be restless at all other times. Nobody became wealthy by waiting. Fulfill your dreams, set your hopes high with expectations, that way if you make it halfway there, you will still have made it, and still trying to better yourself.